I recently read the book Wonder by R.J. Palacio. There are a few crafty types of things I absolutely loved about this book that I’ll get out of the way by talking about them first. The, what I call, “mini-chapters” are awesome. When I was a kid, my reading stamina was pretty much nonexistent and a long chapter inside a book would often times lead me right to abandonment. I’d never finish the book because I just got to a 43 page chapter I couldn’t sustain. I also loved how Wonder was told from so many different perspectives. Stories that are told from multiple perspectives make them seem so real. As a reader you also get so much more out of the plot line. From a writer’s perspective, I have the utmost respect for the talent it takes to craft a story when more than one character’s perspective is shared, no mind six!
So now the story...it is one of a young boy entering fifth grade and about to go to school for the first time ever. He’s been home schooled his entire life due to some medical conditions, predominantly being a severely deformed face, for lack of a better word. While I was reading this book, my emotions were on a roller coaster ride and so many thoughts and wonderings went flying through my head. Poor, poor, August! It literally killed me at times when he’d refer to his own face as “disgusting”. It actually brought tears to my eyes and so did a lot of other parts of the book. Without including any spoilers, I can think of at least 4 times right now that I cried during this book.
In this story we get to also hear from his sister, Via, his friend, Summer, his friend, Jack, Via’s boyfriend, Justin, and Via’s friend, Miranda. When hearing their perspectives along with August’s, I started to wonder how I would’ve reacted to being around him. August often talks about this “look” people give him. It’s this sort of double take where you aren’t sure if you should keep looking or not so you end up kind of looking a few times real quick. He notices it and he knows why people do it. And the saddest part to me, was that I knew exactly what he was talking about...let’s be real we have all done it in one circumstance or another. A lot of the fifth graders in Wonder turn out to be saints in my book because of their understanding, bravery and friendship.
Ok, so this book is also extremely quotable. Go to the quotes section on Goodreads and you’ll get plenty of ideas for some motivational posters for your classroom. The themes and ideas in this book made me do a lot of self-reflecting and I wondered if my students would, too. I thought about how I would’ve treated August and reacted to him if I were in his class. I know I would’ve had a hard time understanding a boy like him when I was 11. I would hope that our students reading this book would spend some time in self-reflection mode as well. I got to a part of the book where the principal spoke about being “kinder than is necessary”. That really seemed to strike a chord with me because I know I am not always that. However, I thought about how much those three words could really change things for a kid like August and how they could also really change things for kids in your classrooms, too.
If you are a teacher in grades 4-8 you should totally read this book to your students. Start some good conversations, have them write, and talk in small groups. Learning how to understand people’s differences is so critical for kids that age and this book can put a lot of that on the table for you. And if you are not a teacher, you should read this book anyway, and tell all of your friends to read it too!